Via Guest blogger Robyn Michaels:
My Facebook
account got hacked. I ended up with no control at all over my account. I could
not even see my account. So the friends who had posted to me that I got hacked
- I never saw those messages at all. The hacker even took them down. Over
almost a two week period, the hacker made contact with most everyone on my
Messenger. Even people I was not friends with! Apparently, just because we had
talked at some point in time, then the hacker believed it was okay to talk to
them. When I did regain control of my account, I noticed they had talked to
people I had not talked to on Messenger for many years! The hacker had also
cloned my account and made me friends with it. Why? I have no idea. As soon as
I was able to I notified Facebook Security, but they said it was a valid
account and left it there. So I unfriended myself and blocked it. They had also
sent out a bunch of friend requests to friends of friends. Some of those folks
even accepted. So they talked to them. Posing as me. Ugh! What a nightmare to
clean up. I am still trying to clean up Messenger and get my friends back that
I lost. Tedious job, and sometimes impossible.
Many of my
friends knew right away that it was not me talking to them. Some did not and
tried doing what the hacker wanted them to do. As far as I am aware, only 1
friend ended up getting hacked from this fiasco. Some stopped in time. Others
did not even engage. And some had fun with it - the hacker did not like that
and blocked them.
How did this
happen? I had been so careful all these years. I will tell you how it happened.
A “friend” messaged me about 5am. She said she could not get into her Facebook
account and would I help her. I thought she had added me to her “trusted
contacts” and just didn’t tell me. That was exactly the procedure this scenario
was like. And also typical of her. So I obliged. Wrong move! I thought I got
her hacked. Turns out that she got me hacked! Ugh! Apparently Facebook had
stopped “trusted contacts” and I was not aware of that tidbit of info. There
are many ways hackers get in. I can only talk about my experience. I tried
getting control of my account again, but it did not work. Every time Facebook
Security sent me an email code, they emailed the hacker too. I ended up having
to upload my ID to Facebook Security and wait. And wait, and wait, and wait!
Finally I tried again and uploaded my ID again. With that message I told them
that they cannot keep sending me and the hacker the code because it is going
nowhere. They finally got me back into my account! It took long enough. And
lots of damage was done while waiting. But I got control back! Yay! My patience
paid off. Side note: if you make a new account then you usually cannot get your
old account back. This is why they give you the option of trying to get your
account back or making a new account.
What has this
experience taught me? It has taught me to not have anyone on my list that I
have no other way to contact them - in case something like this happens. I have
friends I might never get back because I cannot reach them another way. I did
get a friend back who told me that several people were sending her messages
that I was back and could not reach her. Some of the people who reached out to
her don’t even know me! We just had a mutual friend who asked them to help out
and they did! I am grateful for them being willing to help. Thankfully she got
back in touch with me. It taught me that people who love me will bend over
backwards to try to help me - no questions asked. As flattering as that is, it
could also be dangerous. Like in this case. Be careful out there, People! It
has taught me that some people I need to be more specific with - such as “my Facebook was hacked so
don’t talk to me on there because it isn’t me!”
because some folks don’t
realize Messenger is part of Facebook too, so they still talked to them and
some even tried to help me anyway. It taught me that some people know me so
well that they knew it was not me right off the bat. My neighbor said he knew
right away because I mostly always use proper grammar and punctuation. Then he
asked how my trip to another state was and they answered him that it went well.
He watched my home while I would go somewhere. He knew I did not go there. He
called them names so they blocked him. WTG, neighbor!
Tips and hints
to not get into this kind of situation. If anyone messages you at 5am and
doesn’t need a ride to the ER or work, ignore them. It does not matter who it
is. You gotta be careful out there! Anyone who truly is a friend will
understand that. There are no “trusted contacts” anymore on Facebook, be aware
of this tidbit of info! Have a separate email just for Facebook, that way they
cannot hack your email too. I had this set up but forgot my email password. I
had to make another email to get my account back. Instagram is also part of
Facebook. It is helpful to have a different password for that account and to
not have them connected. I did not, but they did not do much damage to my
Instagram. That account was easy to clean up. Check your “log ins” on all 3 places
- Facebook, Messenger, and Instagram. Make sure you know it is you and not some
random person or hacker. Check your settings often. I use to check mine every
other day. On occasion something could be switched from where you set it. Keep
up on it!
A final word
to keep in mind. Make sure your friends know your pattern for asking for help
from them. The friends who tried to help me - I would never have asked for help
from them thru Messenger. I have their phone numbers. I would just call or text
them thru there if I honestly needed them. One of my friends tried so hard, but
had no idea what they wanted her to do. She is not tech savvy at all. She said
they had her in tears because she thought it was me and that I was mad at her
for not knowing how to do things. I asked her if I had ever asked her for help
in the 40+ years we have known each other. She said no. I asked her if I ever
talked to her like they talked to her. She said no. I told her after 40+ years
I am not gonna start now either!
Some of my
friends got the “I saw your name on the FJP list” message. There is no FJP
list. Facebook does not do promotions like that. Some of my friends got both
messages. Why, I have no idea. Hackers and scammers are an odd lot. Apparently
they are dumb enough to believe that saying “What’s up, Dude” or “I’m bored” to
my friends sounds like me. SMH! Thankfully my friends know I don’t talk like
that!
Have fun out
there, but be safe. Don’t knowingly put yourself at risk because it puts your
friends at risk too. Thank you for reading this.